วันอังคารที่ 3 กรกฎาคม พ.ศ. 2550

Speed Dating Questions to Ask - Preparation Pays

Speed Dating Questions to Ask - Preparation Pays
By : Brian McGregor

If you're interested in finding a partner, you may have thought about speed dating, but were hesitant about trying it.

If you're familiar with the concept, you will know that an important element is to prepare yourself with the best speed dating questions to ask.

However, if you're unfamiliar with the concept of speed dating, here is a brief outline of the process. A group, usually singles, meet together in a hosted venue. Although initially designed to enable people to meet others of the opposite sex, there are gay speed dating events available.

The basic idea is that each person has a short time to converse with each of the other attendees of the opposite sex (or same at a gay event). The time can be as short as one minute and as long as ten minutes. An average of these events is about three to five minutes. During the time you spend with each person, you ask questions of each other trying to see if there is any 'chemistry' between you.

As you move from person to person, you make notes or have some other way in which to record your initial impressions of the people you've met. At the end of the speed dating event, there is usually time for socialising and to get to know the other attendees better.

It is important that you don't 'clam up' and fail to make the most of the opportunity. As the saying goes, "You never have a second chance to make a good first impression."

One of the ways you can help yourself is to prepare your questions in advance. There are several ways in which you can research this requirement. The internet is a good starting point. Searching on Google for - speed dating questions to ask - will unearth websites which provide useful ideas in helping you to generate a questions list.

What you need to avoid are questions which are too intrusive or indeed simply rude. Remember, you have only met this person for a few minutes. The best type of question to use are called open questions. By this we mean questions which start with what, where, why and how. These type of questions cannot be answered with a simple yes or no. They encourage the person to open up in their answer.

Conversely, closed questions allow the questionee to answer with a yes or no. Closed questions start with words like do you, can you and will you.

So, when working on your speed dating questions to ask, do some homework, follow these simple rules and the person of your dreams might reveal themselves to you.
About the Author

Brian McGregor is an experienced personal adviser and speed dating advocate. For details of speed dating questions to ask, you'd be mad to try speed dating without reading Brian's 'A Guide to Speed Dating'. It's available free from http://www.wizobizo.com/xfactor/speeddatingguide.htm
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Dating in demand

Dating in demand
By : Jon

Women....Women....Women.. and more Women.. hallelujah women, and to have your style of dating on demand with these women ! The problem is where to get them and how to get a lot of them right (aka getting a piece of a hot mami's Chocha)? Holla back if you feel me. Hallelujah holla back ! The problem with the bottom line is there's lot's of wanna-bees out there telling everyone they have the way of all ways to get the honeys with this method or that method. Mostly there are ebooks full of mis-information on how to be a damn comedian not a dating in demand player ! They tell you to crack a joke, maybe take a jab at a female's self esteem and BOOM you're in ! If you believe that then you better start believe'n they make three dollar bills & pigs have wings ! True enough a joke or two can help break the ice but this usually works when you're already a real deal dating in demand player and some female is all up on you. You feel me ? But how the heck do you get some fine female on you like you were the last man on earth ? Well that's what mack'n, play'n, and the dating in demand game (and it truely is a game) of getting hot females is all about. Not your typical dating advice !

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Dating The Divorced Man - Is It Safe?

Dating The Divorced Man - Is It Safe?
By : Lee Blackspur

Divorce rates are at an all-time high in the United States and it is estimated that approximately nine in ten people will marry with at least half of their "first marriages" ending in divorce. Dating tips for women will typically recommend that you avoid involvement with a recently divorced man. I think we can all agree that these statistics make that a bit impossible. The general belief is that these men are damaged goods. They are dealing with all kinds of emotional pain, hurt, anger and grief. There may be children impacted by the divorce and battles over custody, alimony, property division and who knows what else? But, really, what man doesn't come with some kind of baggage? Especially fresh out of a breakup?

Dating tips for women suggest that women interested in a relationship with someone recently divorced need to learn as much as possible about the failed marriage and divorce.

Was the divorce the result of tumultuous relationship or irreconcilable differences?

Have the divorce proceedings been finalized or are he and his ex-wife still battling over certain issues, wants and demands?

It is important to know such things before becoming serious with someone recently separated or divorced. You need to be prepared for any changes in his mood or demeanor that could be the result of irritability from the divorce proceedings.

Another dating tip in this situation is making sure he is emotionally available following the divorce. For instance, if the marriage collapsed because he learned of his wife having an extra marital affair, he may have difficulty trusting another woman for a period of time following the separation. If the marriage ended for reasons he can't necessarily comprehend he may have concerns about being hurt again by another woman. If it was his own infidelity that collapsed his marriage and family he may be carrying quite a bit of guilt with a feeling that he is incapable of monogamy. You need to know these concerns before getting too serious.

Some experts will ideally suggest for a woman to stay away from a man that is "freshly divorced". There is a possibility that he may not be over everything yet. Pay close attention to how often he talks about his ex-wife. This is a delicate situation because you obviously need to have certain questions answered about the relationship he and his ex-wife shared as well as where it went wrong. At the same time you don't want him sitting around talking endlessly about her.

First of all, it's unhealthy for him, but it could also be a red flag that you need to recognize. If he's talking about her quite frequently she is obviously on his mind and it's likely that he still carries some strong feelings for her. Perhaps he can't necessarily break away from her. Especially if there are children involved and she's still in his life to a certain degree. This is another thing that you have to be accepting of if you become involved with a divorced man. The ex will remain a presence in his life if she is the mother of his children. This can be difficult for some women to deal with.

Be sure he isn't confused as to what he currently wants. He may think that he's looking for a committed relationship, when he's actually curious about playing the field, possibly making up for lost time if he married young and never dated much. One sign of the latter is whether or not he introduces you to friends, family and his ex-wife and children. If it's a relationship that he is looking for, be leery of whether he's looking at you as a replacement for his wife. Is he trying to force activities on you that the two of them shared? Is he too eager to have you take care of him? Has he recommended that you move in entirely too soon? There may be a needy aspect to his personality so just make sure that you aren't acting as a wife substitution.


About the Author

Lee Blackspur is the owner of My-Dating-Advice.com which provides online and offline dating tips, advice and articles for men, women and teens of all ages and experience.
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Online Dating: Use Your Common Sense

Online Dating: Use Your Common Sense
By : TJ Denton

If you've been around the internet dating scene for more than the last couple of years, you've witnessed the industry grow from a kind of sleazy, underground entity into a multi-billion dollar a year behemoth of wonderfully engaging and classy websites.

Of course, some areas of the dating services on the web continue a sleaze factor, but after all, the internet does imitate the actual world, doesn't it?

The one quality everyone needs to possess in this wild, roller-coaster world of ours and in the world of the internet remains constant: common sense! And, in the world of internet dating, this common sense approach is mandatory.

A number of common sense approaches to internet dating are simple and easy to remember and easy to put into practice.

1. Don't identify yourself in an online dating environment. Get yourself one of the many free email accounts offered on the web. Do not release your real name, your address or telephone number in any way. If you feel a contact you make can be trusted...wait! Time is on your side. The urge to be impatient and hook-up with someone quickly is inevitable, but wait.

2. When you're composing a personal ad or when you're in a chat room or instant message, be honest about yourself and make your intentions easy to understand. Want to just flirt? Make it known that you are just flirting! Don't give anyone a reason to think you're someone you're not.

3. "Listen" and "watch" what is going on with the person you are communicating with. Again...common sense is the rule. If something seems to be amiss with the other person, if a feeling of uneasiness with the direction of the conversation, gracefully bow out. Your intuition is almost never wrong! Never let your emotions pour out of you...even if you think you may have found the "right" match...wait until you meet in person. Then, you'll really find out what's up with them!

4. If the other person seems to be pushing the idea of talking on the phone, wait until it feels right for you. You are in control over everything that transpires, remember that. When you do start a telephone "meeting", ask for their number if it makes you feel more secure. Then you can call when you want to, not at the whim of the other contact. Again, listen to everything in that call...the contact's voice: sincere or somewhat demanding? The sounds in the background: kids yelling, baby crying, any instance that doesn't seem right to you...the person may not have been truthful in what they have told you about themselves. Common sense!

5. When and if you decide to meet face to face, tell your family (yikes!) or a friend or trusted co-worker about the plans. Tell them exactly what your time-frame regarding the date will be and where you are going. If plans change, like going from a meeting in a coffee shop to a walk in a park, let someone know! It would be a good idea beforehand to let the person you are going to meet that you only want an "open" date.....with people around. If they act rebuffed or a little miffed at that, they aren't interested in you feeling secure. Don't agree to go any further!

And...maybe the most important aspect of this first, maybe second or even third meeting with this person...have your own transportation! Do not depend on them to pick you up. Observing the obvious...it also gives you a way out of you are least bit uncomfortable. If you are...leave! No car of your own? Call friends immediately or grab a cab...you are in control!

Internet dating can be a lot of fun, but as with anything in life, it only takes one bad apple to spoil everything. Be cautious, use every ounce of your intuition and common sense and enjoy yourself! All three can work together...you have all the control!


About the Author

TJ Denton has been watching the evolution of online dating services, offering tips and advice about online dating and recommending some of the top internet dating sites for a number of websites. Find my tips and techniques for safe dating site-surfing and reviews of great services here: Internet Dating Reviews.
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Dating For Seniors: Senior Singles Finding Love Online

Dating For Seniors: Senior Singles Finding Love Online
By : David Kamau

For the senior single, negotiating through the minefields of the dating scene can be scary. This need not be, as dating for seniors can be as much fun as any other age group. Plus mature dating brings forth a richness borne of maturity that's largely lacking in the younger generation.

One big challenge faced by the older single is that of lack of avenues geared towards dating for seniors. Night clubs and singles bars are particularly designed with this age-group in mind.

Actually, lack of places to meet other seniors may not be problem. There are plenty of places for this. The problem is getting to meet compatible senior singles who are actively looking for a date.

The internet offers perhaps the best chance for the senior single to meet like-minded mature singles for the purpose of dating. There are services that are dedicated to dating for seniors, where younger people are not allowed. Depending on the service, you must be at least 40 or 50 years old to join. These services are very active and vibrant.

Providing a place for seniors to gather and communicate, they offer superb matching services and a dozen ways to connect. Group or individual chat forums, email relay and other now-standard tools make safe, anonymous communication easy. Until the point you choose not to have it remain anonymous!

The number of people who might be referred to as, "mature", "prime", "middle aged", "third agers", or senior citizens and who are dating online is booming. Career demands, early retirement, rising divorce rates, and longer life expectancy mean that more people than ever before are single in their later years.

This has created a growing pool of older singles on online: you can be a total beginner to online dating and go from no date to lots of dates in a very short time.

And, online dating is cheaper and brings quicker results than traditional ways of meeting people.

However there are pitfalls to look out for. Safety is on top of concerns for senior singles dating online. Scam artists, both foreign and domestic, have been known to prey on this age-group. The presumption, right or wrong, is that this age-group is desperate and vulnerable. Don't lose your heart as well as your money.

One way of protecting yourself from being scammed is by signing up with a reputable senior singles dating service.

You also need to be careful how you interact with others online. Avoid revealing personal information such as your real name, work place or home address until you're pretty sure that your date is for real. Even then take it slow - don't tell too much too soon.
About the Author

Discover the world of senior online dating at http://e-datecentral.com/personals/seniors.htm David Kamau is webmaster of http://e-datecentral.com which reviews dating sites.
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วันอังคารที่ 26 มิถุนายน พ.ศ. 2550

Interracial Dating tips

Interracial Dating tips
By : Brian Smith

Honesty is definitely the best policy. It must be

the one trait that 99% of people will find

attractive in someone.Have your profile as

accurate as possible with an up to date photo. If

you have any habits that some people might not

like tell them up front so they don't find out on

your first date.

Sound positive

If you have any good qualities let everyone know.

But don't boast and show off. Talk about all the

things you like and enjoy doing. Better to have

singles contact you for the same things you both

enjoy rather than the same things you dislike.

Make people smile

It's another thing that will get the click on

your profile. Show a sense of humor. If humor

doesn't come easy then don't try and use it.

Remember you are selling yourself. looking like a

fool will not get any clicks on your profile.

Have a good headline

Give someone a reason to click on your profile.

Have a catchy or intriguing headline. When

singles are looking at the profiles they will be

scanning the photos first then the headline is

next.Don't tell them something about yourself.

Say something like...

"I have something special for you".

This will instantly get there attention. Try not

to say something directly about yourself


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